come on

Nothing is more exciting and make me happy than knowing that someone talk badly about me behind my back, and then I know it, and they are wrong. 

Oh… Your game is too easy for me, baby.

I’ve been struggling to be steady in facing my mother’s fight ’till death, and you’re trying to fear me with.. Lies?

Come on.

belajar

Maka dari itu kita harus belajar selamanya, supaya kita mengerti perubahan jaman dan cara beradaptasi dengannya.

Maka dari itu kita harus mengaji selamanya, supaya akhlak kita bertambah baik setiap harinya.

Maka dari itu kita harus membuka pikiran dan merendahkan hati untuk menerima ilmu dari mana saja, supaya pengalaman pahit orang lain tidak perlu terjadi sama kita.

Maka dari itu kita harus mengurangi ego dan memperbesar empati, supaya saat tua nanti ego tidak kentara tapi empati seluas samudera.

Jangan pernah berhenti belajar kalau mau jadi orang baik yang berakal dan berakhlak.

Communication

There’s something wrong with our common communication as a family. We tend to speak a bit rude, a bit ignorant, a bit making-the-mood-down-and-the-tense-up, yet we are so nice with other people who are not even we know so well?

We tend to be really really friendly to our collegues, sisters, brothers, but not-that-much-friendly with our spouse, mothers, fathers, children. Why?

And yes, sometimes everyone becomes trial in our life. But, we can make it better right?

Who will be there for you when you’re down, or in the hospital, or in debt, or lonely?

Who will be there when you need someone to talk to, hands to help, or just someone who care and show it to you?

So why we tend to speak a bit rude, a bit ignorant, a bit making-the-mood-down-and-the-tense-up, yet we are so nice with other people who is not even we know so well?

Some say, 

Because we’ve known each other like forever then it will be different kind of communication we use. 

I know. I understand. But I’m still rolling my eyes hearing that answer.

Listen.

No. It’s not like that. It’s a mistake. Do not communicate badly with some people you’ve known like forever. Choose the right words with the right intention. Make the positive impact when they’re around. Do not the other way around. They took good part to make who you are now even if you don’t remember.