People have their own filter of moments based on how they grow, how they experience, with whom they talk to.
People only see what they want to see. They can only hear what they want to hear. They will be affected more by the actions of anger, not by action of love.
That is why we can be so judgmental by one example.
I won’t blame to the distance, the lack of communication, the easy of conversation, the limited time to spend, the untold stories.
But I want to blame to the lack of empathy, the lack of appreciation, the inability to understand positive actions, the unwillingness to change, the ego that blind the eyes of heart.
I really want to blame on someone, or something.
Because it’s so much easier to do than to reflecting ourselves, than to admit what we have done, than to fix any problems.