The common problem I find everywhere. Well, actually I have this problem.
We tend to say something based on our feeling and understanding at the first place. Sometimes we forget that each of us have different perspective and we do have choice according to our thought.. or maybe to our own benefits.
Competitive and defensive. I found that kind of reactions when we aren’t able to understand what people say. Oh.. if those reactions involved, any conversation won’t be easy.
So, this is the moment when I can say that to learn on our empathy is very important. Empathy can bring us beyond ourselves, thougts, and feelings. Empathy makes us one step further from being selfish. Empathy teaches us to give for others. Empathy finally could make our heart bigger.. because we have place for other people in our heart.